Quote Originally Posted by wonderworld View Post
Hey All,

I need some advice here. I am new to this realm (and site) and I am finally figuring out what this is all about. What I have discovered has been very eye opening and grand. However, I am out of element here. I have a new found sense of irrational neediness (vulnerability). I could do one of two two things:
Go back to vanilla dating where I don't have these issues and just hone my skills at apologizing for the bored look on my face

Use my resources to figure out why and how to overcome this.

I have, like all of you, chosen to continue this route and tackle my issue. I personally think neediness is a VERY unattractive quality and am surprised that I have found myself feeling this way. I am reading a book on BDSM , but would love some real life experiences also. Please share with me any experience or advice you may have on this topic. Thanks!!

Every single human being in the world has a vulnerability in them. Some of us are more prepared to accept and embrace them as part of our personality than others are. Feeling 'needy' is in my opinion, associated with unfulfilled desires and as such evolve and morph into wonderful expressions of personality when met with acceptance and understanding.

Worry not Wonderworld, you are never alone in such feelings.