Quote Originally Posted by fetishdj View Post
It really is all about practise and study. A good writing tip is to read it aloud in order to relate the writing style with the sound.

You may also want to record yourself speaking and transcribe it and look at your own voice patterns and how you may write that as 'dialogue'. This may give you clues as to how you should write when talking in chat.

Another option for your online sessions may be to invest in a VOIP phone. Most messenger programs now allow you to connect a microphone to them to commnuicate by voice. If you get a headset with a mike and headphones in it (like the ones call centre staff wear) you can walk around while you talk as well and have your hands free. Make it wireless for more freedom... buy the same for your sub so you can have them perform tasks while still in communication with you
There are some really helpful tips here for you; however, remember one thing - online is a one-dimensional venue and many a times what is written as you meant it to sound, is not always what is read in interpretation. I think that's the reason for expressing oneself in other ways than dialogue alone.