Rant...

[blythe spirit]

Mr.Tomcat,this may well be a classic case of transference.This sub is resentful and angry at the no intercourse penalty imposed by her dominant,but knows good and well that she had best not show this resentment based set of emotions to him in reaction to this penalty.Well the sub's resentment grows to the point that it has to come out somehow and this situation at this house is the perfect setting for her to do this emotional release,what with her dominant being absent from this host's home.

On the conscious level the sub knows full well this bratty behavior of hers will be reported to her dominant,The host and other guests are to her merely the
means to transmit this resentment and anger of hers.

One larger example of this transference setting I have seen is that of a chain of
restaurants,the management of which had a culture that encouraged these managers to treat the wait staff and cooks like crap.When an unfairly treated employee objected to anything they were suspended without pay for a few days or fired on the spot.These poorly treated employees having no other means of release,transferred their resentment to the customers by means of displaying a really bad attitude and poor service towards the customers.
Just as a side note on the restaurant story,4 out of 5 of this chain's locations closed at the same time due to lack of business.

That is most probably the best response (and logical reason) that I have read. Rather than critcize the sub (and Dom) as some of us posters did, you cleverly analyzed the situation and the motive. Kudos!

Whether you are right or not, I don't know; however, I appreciate the fact that you did not find fault with either the Dom (for poor training) or the sub (for simply being a brat without reason).

Thank you.

[thir]

That is most probably the best response (and logical reason) that I have read. Rather than critcize the sub (and Dom) as some of us posters did, you cleverly analyzed the situation and the motive. Kudos!

Whether you are right or not, I don't know; however, I appreciate the fact that you did not find fault with either the Dom (for poor training) or the sub (for simply being a brat without reason).

Thank you.

All well and good. But if, as some here, you have had your fill of this kind of behaviour which does spoil things for people who are more considerate, you might be less analysing and more acting to protect others.

I have asked another to describe his experience with bratty behaviour and the damage on equipment it caused, and he will before long.

Being submissive is not a license to behave like a maniac, and there is no excuse for it, period.

[TheseDays]

Amen!

All well and good. But if, as some here, you have had your fill of this kind of behaviour which does spoil things for people who are more considerate, you might be less analysing and more acting to protect others.

I have asked another to describe his experience with bratty behaviour and the damage on equipment it caused, and he will before long.

Being submissive is not a license to behave like a maniac, and there is no excuse for it, period.

[blythe spirit]

All well and good. But if, as some here, you have had your fill of this kind of behaviour which does spoil things for people who are more considerate, you might be less analysing and more acting to protect others.

I have asked another to describe his experience with bratty behaviour and the damage on equipment it caused, and he will before long.

Being submissive is not a license to behave like a maniac, and there is no excuse for it, period.

All well and good; however, she was asked to leave so, others were protected. Whilst her behaviour was immature, people (who are ill-equipped emotionally) do not act out without a reason. Pin-pointing the reason (as fantazmaster suggested) and discussing it until resolution is had, is the only way this type of behaviour will cease.

No one has the right to behave like a maniac, or to disrupt other's lives, but when they do - more than likely - there is an underlying cause. Perhaps, if her Dom cares about her, he will take the time to learn why she did what she did and determine what action need be taken so that it never happens again, even if it means counselling.

For some reason after reading fantazmaster's post, I saw a child acting out for attention. To me that's just sad and is a cry for help. Unfortunately, some of us have aged, but not matured. And criticism doesn't help an emotionally unhealthy person to mature.

[leo9]

I have asked another to describe his experience with bratty behaviour and the damage on equipment it caused, and he will before long.

This was a writer in the sex magazine "Forum" on the subject of awful-subs-I-have-known, describing how a friend brought his new slave who played up like a hyperactive child (including trashing his VCR), and excused it by saying (one imagines a cute pout and wiggle) "I wanted to be naughty so Daddy would punish me!"

[blythe spirit]

This was a writer in the sex magazine "Forum" on the subject of awful-subs-I-have-known, describing how a friend brought his new slave who played up like a hyperactive child (including trashing his VCR), and excused it by saying (one imagines a cute pout and wiggle) "I wanted to be naughty so Daddy would punish me!"

And that confirms what I said about "attention seekers" who do not know how to go about getting the attention they need in a constructive manner.