The hardest thing for me and it took me a VERY long time... was coming to the understanding, realization and acceptance that my Master has every right to do whatever he wants to do...period. Whether that means doing whatever he chooses to do to me, or whether it mean fucking the girl who lives 2 doors down...or my best friend. It is not my place and is just NOT acceptable for me to attempt to stop him.- Whether that's through words (begging), manipulation (tears), anger (being sulky)... whatever. When I agreed to having no rights... wow... I have never regretted it for a minute, but I also had no real understanding of where that choice- my last one- would lead me. That is why, though I am a BIG advocate of consentual non-consent for slaves- I really urge ppl to think it through very, very hard before doing it. I've known ppl to sign their very lives away to such agreements with such little thought. It's scary. I always say- imagine the absolute worst nightmare you have regarding what your Dom could choose to do if given true absolute control... if there's no way you could live in that worst nightmare you should not do this.- In that case, stick with your basic hard limit, soft limit, safeword, rights and responsibilities D/s arrangement, because you have to be prepared for anything and everything with consentual non-consent.