Quote Originally Posted by ShadePayne View Post
As you put it

"I posted a question to the Dom's about domination and stated that it is easy for us, because we only have to find the right Master or Mistress to give ourselves to."

No, frankly it isn't easy for us. You make it sound as if you just give yourself to someone and they are responsible for any and everything you do. They don't, for you are a human and have thoughts and ideas and choices....do you not. The experience is what you make of it. Yes, the experience level of ones Dom has alot to do with it too and yes our Dom's are there to teach, guide and correct us as need for this is what they chose to do. They picked the role and played the part....(i personally have a Dom that did not pick nor play a part becasue it is natural and very instinctive for him for this is who he is)...as we picked the role that best suited us. So, please don't take being a sub lightly for i do not...becasue there is nothing easy about it.

Take a moment to read the following please:
http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...709#post810709

Please forgive me if I insulted you in anyway. It is in no way my intention to downplay your ( or anyone elses) submission. I think you took my statement the wrong way. I agree it is not easy for us. My point being is that, I think, ( and this is ONLY MY thought) is that Doms have a hard job by getting to know us as no one else does, the time and effort to care for our emotional and physical well being, along with tempering their own desires,anger, fustrations and needs without crossing the line in their role as our dominants.

For the record, I am a firm believer that not everyone deserves a front row seat in my life, so the screening process is not one to be taken lightly.

So, once again, I offer my sincerest apologies if I offended you in anyway.

unmastered