I had this friend, we no longer talk, who, months ago, made this sidelong comment on how he doesnt get how I can abuse women. Now. This pissed Me off, I let it slide and didnt say anything because he doesnt get this lifestyle etc. But at the same time, he is a guy who has, punched, slapped, and thrown around his girlfriends when he gets angry, among other things. Just out of curiosity. Has anyone else ever gotten anything like this and what did you do? I mean....being told I abuse women within the confines of BDSM and he actualy abuses them, when no one else was around, if something started and I or anyone else was there, we stopped it. But still. Just curious.