Maybe im feeling old and tired this morning. But i really cant be bothered with a sub that dont match my likes and dislikes. Sure i can go play with a non perfect match for a night and such.

But i realised long ago that just being young pretty and sub doesnt cut it with me. Most likely same thing goes for the subs out there but some and especially the newcomers tend to have wery limited understanding of limits and actual desires other than being dominated (my personal experiences).

So where does online play come into all this? Well i can get om my keyboard most anytime and chat up a sub online. Obviusly if i wanted to meet her IRL id go to a danish or atleast scandinavian chat. But thats not really the point.

My online games are pretty much explorations of other peoples sexual deisres and the things they like in play. Sometimes that turns out not matching what i want to spend time, money and effort on trying out IRL but still a rewarding insight offering inspiration for other games.

The last couple of subs i met were from online games and should i go seeking again itd probably be online. Spending weeks exploring and discussing likes and dislikes online pretty much gets rid of discussions youd have to have IRL before getting anywhere. Obviusly youll still need to evaluate and have debriefings once leather meets flesh.

But the perfect dom that i sometimes see subs expecting is better armed for perfection with a bit of online fantasy exploration under his belt. (prolly ill screw up anyways, but hey live and learn)