Safety-nets for 1st meetings

[rosebud]

Yes, this is all good advice, thx so much for sharing!
i'd also like to suggest that, asking for references is a good idea, and when the meeting does occur in a public place if, you should drink anything (Non-Alcoholic), guard it and if you have to go pee, take it with you! Also, should you meet and feel that you are not right for one another and part ways....watch him leave first, before going to your car and still make sure you aren't being followed.....Just my thoughts, thx again!