Hindsight is 20/40 dept: I've had a rough few weeks at work for a number of reasons and might very well be ripping heads off even without this added issue. I don't think Sir knew that, but it can't be that unusual to have a few hiccups due to not knowing the backstory in new relationships of whatever depth. I was not trying to make him out to be the villain here in any way. Maybe some other day, but in a good way -

I do appreciate hearing the other input, though, really.