Bdsm doesnt allways have to be some kind of heavy whipping session with rough sex while tied to some elaborate woodden A-frame with 20 feet of rope and nipple wieghts with a violet wand up ones ass in a well stocked dungeon.

It can be as simple as being told to hold your hands behind your back while having sex.

Or not being allowed panties while one is at work (makes butt plug days real interesting).

Or being taken into the bathroom for a cleaning and inspection.

(and the sex part doesnt even have to be there eaither, there are all sorts of ways to add some bdsm spice to your day to day routine and they dont have to require anything time intensive at all, especially if you live with your partner)

My Owner and I only do anything heavy when time permits and the mood strikes. We both have fairly busy schedules, not to mention I am my mothers home care provider so anything in the house has to be quiet.

And when we lived apart for a while we didint do anything at all until weekends if my or his schedule didnt permit.

It's good for both you and your dominant to remember that some times you just have to be realistic and suck it up and press on with your life and let the kink fade to the wayside a little bit.

Besides, not having everything when and where one wants it all the time will build character and make one appreciate it all the more when they do get things their way on occassion.