Humiliation...ahhhhh, some say there is no bdsm without it.

Others avoid it like the plague lol.

And some claim that humiliation doesnt do a thing for them (I bet they still get wet during humili play though winks).

Everyone, even the consumant hummili slut extrodinare struggles with it to varied degrees depending upon the individual circumstances etc.

The feeling of loosing ones dignatas in the eyes of their panoamar is directly derived from the clash between: one's contemporary social conditioning (which has been going on since before one learned how to understand language and continues throughout ones life in the vanila world) and with one's inner "slut" who thrives on the exquisit freedom brought by one's willing if reluctant blushing submission in total (even if only temporary and fleeting) to the will of another in a manner that is not common to normal social parlance, as well as one projecting their own social conditioning standards unto their dominant's physche (assuming that ones dom will think of them in the same way that a vanila would etc).

It is especially trying and delightful when witnessed by others for some.

Its also somwhat of a natural social interaction condition.

The blushing bride is an example of it in a much more vanila context.

The natural unconsious tendency for an individual in paticular a submissive to avert ones eyes from direct common contact with another isnt just done to avoid a dominance conflict within any given social heirarchy, its also done becuase one gets embaressed to be cuaght staring at the other person.

As with most fetishes what one person finds exciting about a paticular aspect of it, another will find revolting etc.

I say is its safe sane and mutually consensual for all parties and makes you wet ...go for it.