My Dom if you were to look at him, you would think of a teddy bear. He laughs, smiles, always seems to be in a good mood. I've always dreamed of being with a guy that was taller than me and I've always like dark hair as well. Before I even saw my Dom I didn't know what to expect. We chat on Skype so yeah from the chest up I saw him. He looked like a big teddy bear to me that would love to cuddle for hours. However when He gives me that look, I instantly fall into submissive mode and am greatly intimidated by Him. He can have that soft gentle tone and be so loving but when time calls for it He can be stern and assertive.
The look doesn't matter because if you think about it, there are a lot of rich high class women that are into the lifestyle that you wouldn't suspect. Not all badass looking men are into the lifestyle. You can have a CEO of a high end company that wears thousand dollar suits, no tattoos at all and looks primp and proper and he could be a Dom to someone out there.
That's just my opinion though. I don't think the look makes the Dom. You yourself, what's inside beneath those clothes and ink is what makes the Dom.