I am assuming that it is your desire for him to extend his dominion over you on a day to day basis and not have it confined within the realm of the bedroom.

Of course that doesnt mean you and he do not have some limitations inolved in this arrangment and have allready communicated them with each other in an ongoing open ended dialoge.

It is really hard to give you advice on how to respond appropriately without knowing the boundaries of your relationship dynamic or having a "specific" example to work from.

More information would be nessesary for me to formulate a helpful responce for you.