he wants me to understand that being submissive isn't that bad of a thing,If these are all true, you've got a golden dom there, honey. Good for you! I think your training will do exactly as he said and help you build your confidence, because in it you will learn how to please him. It will take out the scary uncertainty, and you will know better when you are "doing it right." And that will help you feel good about yourself.this is the first time I have actually been treated like I'm actually worthy of any sort love/caring.