D/s without bondage/pain

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Are there any subs out there who would be far happier if they knew their Dom wasn't going to inflict pain, or any Doms who feel the same way as me?

I am not into pain. In fact one of the first things I will mention to any potential Dom is that fact. Beyond the fact that being in pain just doesn't do anything for me, I'm very sensitive to touch and bruise easily enough that half the time I have no idea how I got a particular bruise.

Bondage I'm more apt to experiment with but it's the really 'light' bondage that I enjoy. I don't need to have my hands tied immobile to submit but sometimes I need that 'forced' aspect of it to reassure that myself that I am not the one in control.

Of course, like all else, what I am willing to allow is a compromise with whatever Dom I submit to. If He needs more than I, our playing field is most likely somewhere in the middle ground.