Quote Originally Posted by serviam View Post
Teasing I think is a key to making the most of orgasm denial. That to me is what seems to make the need build and become more urgent
And, if left to "die on the vine", that urgency can quickly manifest into indifference for the task or the tasker (or both?)---seems to be the general consensus.

To bring up a completely vanilla scenario, let's say a man visits a stripclub. He sees a woman that attracts him...pushes his buttons, someone just his type. He requests a lapdance from her and then she proceeds to tease and taunt him...denying him the very thing he wants so badly that he's driven to distraction.

He goes home and gives the high, hard one to his wife and finds his relief that way.

Does a female even have an equivalent to that scenario? If a woman is driven to that level of distraction...and denied her release, does she go home and jump her husband or does she masturbate in secret...or does she try to ignore it and end up having an orgasm in her sleep? Depends on the woman, I suppose.