For starters it would help if you'd be a bit more specific in your profile. Also, as Oz has said: You have to be interesting.
Plus, the only thing people can judge you by online is your appearance in your posts and in the chat. Grammar, punctuation, capitalization, that kinda stuff actually counts, even if many people think that it's ok to throw it all out the window.

And finally, to be brutally honest: Your appearance here isn't impressive at all so far. From what I've seen you come across like a whiner, and a whiny Dom is about the last thing a prospective slave wants.