hmm Im both sides here.. a telling one and one to be told......I kind of... told my mum about it... actually she told me that her new lover was into the scene and seemed a bit confused so i showed her a few helpful sites so she could inform herself. i have never and will never tell her any details. It is enough that she knows about my interest... I do know that she tends to talk overly much about all the experiences she has made since.. partly because she always tells me more than I ever wanted to hear and partly because some of her friends needed someone to talk to as she also told them more than they ever wanted to hear...