well... in the interests of not being a "lurker" or another silent male sub, ill toss my hat into the ring.
for me just starting on here (and just starting to realise what being submissive means), i find it can be quite intimidating and overwhelming on here, not intentionaly, but i somtimes worry about responding to a thread, about my feelings on somthing right after somone who's been a sub 24/7 for 8 or 10 years. it's not that i feel my opinions are invalid at all, but most of the time the posts i'm realy interested in have somone who's beaten me, (ouch, no pun intended!) to the punch by expressing what i would have in words so simple and eliquent that all i can do is shrug and be glad somone else understands and can articulate the expericen.