Odds are hon you have been sucked by what many refer to as a poser, or "online dom" who is here for the fantasy aspect but has no real intention of forming any kind of lasting real life relationship with you or anyone else.

Also I would be real leery of anyone who wants to "collar" me whom I havent met in real life and had a relationship with for a long time, real trust, takes real time, in real life, proven by real deeds.