No, dear Asia, love isn't a must. The photographs I used in this thread were made with a friend who's husband is unaware of the BDSM nature of his wife. As she had a short relationship with me years ago, we kept contact and I satisfy her BDSM needs limiting us to oral sex or masturbation. The nettles were so exciting that I slipped several times inside her, finally sharing an orgasm for the first time since long. But it remains physical sex just for pleasure.Originally Posted by Asia