The value of Humiliation

[sub_sequent]

i have found that the closer my relationship with Him becomes, the more i relish the use humiliation. Not only verbal.

It is as if our feeling are intensified by Him giving and me willingly receiving the humiliation.

Sometimes He would say something to me when we are simply having a vanilla conversation, a few words that would be considered humitiation and well...... Let's just say it could be embarrasing if i were in public.

But i found that i need it from Him.

Just a quick question: isn't the very nature of the D/s relationship one with the undertones of humiliation? Daddy/baby girl........ Top/bottom...... M/s....... Owner/pet....
Is humiliation not the basis of this? Is it not simply the degree of it that would differ from person to person? Or am i over simplifying?

[denuseri]

Just a quick question: isn't the very nature of the D/s relationship one with the undertones of humiliation? Daddy/baby girl........ Top/bottom...... M/s....... Owner/pet....
Is humiliation not the basis of this? Is it not simply the degree of it that would differ from person to person? Or am i over simplifying?

Oh as much as one may wish to deny it...its a very core concept on a physiological level to the arousal one experiences when on their knees or in some lewd pose being inspected by a fully clothed dominant holding a whip and making comments etc.

I say physiological because the arousal response certain types of humiliation can trigger is not just in one's head.