A lot depends on your definition of virginity. Personally i go with the definition of virginity as not having engaged in sexual intercourse with another person. Otherwise, you could argue that the use of a tampon or a having a gynecological exam or Pap smear took your virginity. If your hymen breaks while horseback riding or whatever, have you lost your virginity?

My suggestion would be to look at what you are trying to attain in keeping your virginity, and how you define "being a virgin." Using a toy vaginally (or anally) does not have to mean that you have lost the opportunity to have a first meaningful sexual experience with a person.

i say get whatever toys you want and enjoy them without guilt.