Challenging subbies

[Master Frost]

I've had both. And the ones that push are My fav hands down. Giving a command and KNOWING it will be carried out without question gets boring to Me. But giving a command and watching how she pushes back and resists no matter how simple is fun. Does she make Me want to pull My hair out sometimes? yeah she does. Its better than getting bored with tasks and commands knowing whatever you throw out will be carried out.

[just_ine]

Giving a command and KNOWING it will be carried out without question gets boring to Me. But giving a command and watching how she pushes back and resists no matter how simple is fun.

First off, to each His own.

Secondly:
Comments like this always make me frown. Perhaps I miss the point completely and would appreciate to be educated.

What is submission if it doesn't include obedience. I'm not talking about blind obedience....mindless 'YesSir'. But obedience out of a desire to please Him. But when her obedience doesn't please Him...... Why does He then have her? she is missing out on the deep satisfaction of knowing that she obeyed and He was pleased. Because He feels like she should rather be playing games??

If obeying Him is boring to Him perhaps He needs to (a) rethink the necessity of the task and (b) look for a vanilla partner who likes to be spanked on occasion, not a submissive.

Then again, One partner calls me a brat. W/we enjoy the fun and banter. Teasing Him is fun and even skirting on the edge is something that energises U/us both. But when He commands, I obey. I will ask for leniency when needed, I will ask questions and clarification... BUT I obey. This is the very foundation of D/s.

I believe myself to be challenging as a submissive. Not because I willfully disobey but because I expect a lot from my Him. I have a good mind and am not lazy to use it. I don't submit to anyOne and those who have my submission have shown Themselves to be worthy of it. They worked for it.....as I worked for Their Dominance.

I realise there isn't a 'one way' of D/s, but this seems to go to the very nature and fabric of What Domination and submission is.

[lorem angelum]

Then again, One partner calls me a brat. W/we enjoy the fun and banter. Teasing Him is fun and even skirting on the edge is something that energises U/us both. But when He commands, I obey. I will ask for leniency when needed, I will ask questions and clarification... BUT I obey. This is the very foundation of D/s.

I believe myself to be challenging as a submissive. Not because I willfully disobey but because I expect a lot from my Him. I have a good mind and am not lazy to use it. I don't submit to anyOne and those who have my submission have shown Themselves to be worthy of it. They worked for it.....as I worked for Their Dominance.

I realise there isn't a 'one way' of D/s, but this seems to go to the very nature and fabric of What Domination and submission is.

I love this response I and agree with it wholeheartedly. If he gives me a command I obey it, this is our foundation....how we both mesh and complete each other. Not to say, like just ine, I don't skirt the edge a bit, it can add that extra spark. I also know if I skirt to close to that edge and he is displeased, I will know it. I feel that pushing to much in my eyes becomes disrespectful and not synonymous with what a D/s relationship is based on. But I am smart, strong and it is my willingness to give up these things in myself to MY Sir when he commands that completes us. But like everyone says, not all D/s relationships are the same, just like not all vanilla ones stay the same course.