Hi Emily. My name is n rereading what I just wrote, it seems I focus more on the relationship than the physical side of things. That's because it is the relationship that builds the openness to share fantasies, to know your partner will protect you so you can let yourself go, and ultimately get the full impact of dominant/ submissive sex. You seem like an intelligent and together young woman, and I certainly did not have anything like your emotional sophistication when I was your age. If you are interested in following up, maybe I can describe some inventive cunt self- torture that we can do using kitchen appliances. Think about it- just walk around you kitchen, naked , poking things in your pussy, and you will get the idea. Wet dreams until next time.