I have recently been introduced into the world of BD (SM isn't in my sights at this point). Your forum is one that I picked out of many that I explored. You seem like you have a great community here with incredible passion for the art of BDSM. I wouldn't have ever thought this was my thing but am coming more and more to the fact that it is. I would have to consider myself a submissive and expect it will take me some time to actually get to what that means to me. Hope you don't mind if I ask 'exploring' kinda dumb questions along the way.