Ok, I have a friend who supposedly SAYS he is a Dom and lives the lifestyle but is always "stressed" and "dealing with lifestyle b/s" and it just doesnt seem to me to be as such.... Now, he was my friend before me and Sir decided to want to live this life. I have asked him for pointers about my Sir ( who is my boyfriend of two years) becoming more informed and gaining more experience because even though I MYSELF is familiar with the lifestyle, Sir is not. My friend claims that in order for Sir to understand what its like to be a Dom, he needs to spend time as a sub.......I TOTALLY dont think thats right....Is it?????