Laughter taking BDSM away from being so serious and putting the fun back into exploring …

I think many individuals get so wrapped up in what is “supposed to be and not supposed to be “ that they forget what they came into BDSM in the first place was to enjoy themselves.

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I recently had a conversation about this topic recommendation.

xxx : a serious suggestion - laughter
xxx : I think it is a key component to BDSM - particularly in real life
xxx : because things do go wrong , knots slip , canes break
xxx : and that sort of thing is best enjoyed with laughter
wolfscout1: the Whole we take our selves to seriously thing
xxx : exactly
xxx : it is serious, but it is also fun
wolfscout1: agreed.
xx : it is about flogging her, but is also about splashing her with washing up water

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Perhaps this thread should be about telling others of something funny that led to not taking things so seriously which added to their experiences.

Perhaps you’d just like to comment on how being so serious detracts from the experience.

If you don't enjoy what you're doing ... if you don't laugh with each other occasionally .. is it as enjoyable for both parties?

Don't you find that laughing and smiling together can bring the two closer in this most mutually benefiting relationship ?

Lighten up and enjoy yourself , folks.
This is why we do what we do.