I've been in the chat room and I find it awfully limited. The small window size means that you can't fit many lines of text. When the room moves quickly it is very hard to keep track of it.
What I am suggesting is a BDSM library IRC chatroom. There are a number of free IRC browsers for Windows, Mac OS, Linux etc and I personally find it far better then an 'online' chatroom such as this one. It is possible to make IRC rooms secret so only people who know about them can enter, and so on. I am not an expert on IRC but from past experience I would say it is far better than what this site currently has in place.
An IRC room would require:
- OPs to moderate the room
- to be put on a particular network
- to be registered (for free)
As I said, I am not an expert. Also, as a newb to this site I can understand if people don't think it is the best option. I just thought I should recommend it - from personal experience I have found it to be a vert effective and useful form of chat.