i'm sure this happened to other subs a few times, and i would like some input. you find someone new dom to play with, or have a session with, and the new dom has a different idea of fun than you do. they suggest something that you are truly not comfortable doing (think hard limits), but they tell you that you should do it anyway since you're a sub. they say there really aren't limits, you should do what the dom wants, no matter how you feel about it. so as a sub, do you do it anyhow to please them, or hold your ground and say no? what do you tell a dom who tries to get you to do it anyway? i think subs have the right to say no, but i wanted some input from others.
thanx