When I began this part of my life I easily slipped into the postion of sub...it suited my needs, my desires and lifestyle. However, by the time I came out of the first proper D/s contract I had changed a great deal. I guess I had grown up a little too. Either way, in my new freedom I found a desire to switch that has become central to my character and my relationship to DarkSister.

Im not sure I could pinpoint any particular event or time where I suddenly thought...hmm, I'd like to make her beg for my touch...

My question is, would you say you are just a natural switch...or its something that has developed and changed you from either being primairly Dom or Sub?