As I was reading these posts I came to the realization that I always had something inside of me that was both. I fantasized when I was younger about situations but not identify as either role. I spent a lot of my super younger years tying other little kids up and being tied up and I enjoyed both equally.

My first experience in BDSM land was as a sub and it was awesome. I went to try some Domination when I was very young (like 15) and ended up slitting someones wrists open on a pair of cuffs (which to this day freak me out). I decided then that I was NO Dom. 10 years later and I finally came back to it.

I want to say that it was learned that it was something that I fell into but really looking back, that feeling of Dominating another person is something I've always enjoyed (sometimes just a bit to much).