I had a conversation the other day with someone who asked me if it was possible for a submissive to have "terms" on their submission.

This person had been told by someone that if she put "terms" on her submission then she wasn't really submitting.

I do not know how the word "terms" was being defined by everyone else in the conversation... but from my definition of it terms means the limitations that the relationship requires.

So, based on that definition I wanted to toss that question out to everyone....

Is a sub truly submitting if she puts "terms" on her submission?