At some point in this lifestyle it seems one has to let go of preconceived ideas when it comes to sex and possession. I’m wondering how others deal with “play” either in a group setting or one on one with someone besides their committed partner.
Was this natural for you? Did you have to work or “experience” your way to it? How did your partner deal with it? Was there emotional fallout? I’m looking for some real life guidance and experience here folks not theory. Who has been successful in this who wasn’t. Please tell me your story.