didn't see the actual date of this thread but definitely good reading in here went thru every page ever comment very addictive hehe. I'd say there are many great points made by some members but me being very new to this (bdsm) and this forum I felt a little butt hurt (phun intended) wink* by some of the comments made towards the new members or male subs. some of us new members or new to the life the style need somewhere to start, or need direction. I have learned more here in the last 4 days reading and chatting with a few members than I ever knew in my previous 32 years about what it means to really be a sub and to really give yourself to your dom.

just my .02 cents please don't persecute me for my comments I have no bad intentions for anyone on here. just want to help my cause of making educating my self about BDSM and make some friends here

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