I posted in this thread a few months ago. I've changed my views since then. I'm starting to wonder if I'm submissive at all or just a bottom. I seem to be too feisty and sassy for any of the Doms I have met. So if all I wind up being is a bottom, I'm good with that. I *want* to find the one that will be able to dominate me, but if that means I have to stop being who I am, then I'll settle for being a bottom.