I once met a lovely gentleman who made me gag on his huge, lovely cock. He tied me up, spanked me, and tried to ram his dick into my virgin ass (He was too big and I still have my black cherry). Then he left and now I trying to reconcile the emotions he awakened in me. I'm looking for someone to guide me through this maze of BDSM. I know that I would like anal play, bondage, flogging, oral play, and since I cum so easily, orgasm restraint and denial.

The ideal dom with NOT be sadistic (I'm not ready for hardcore pain play yet) but will be able to push me to my limits. Over 30 only please. Thank you

Me: Very dark skin, short, huge breasts and long hair.