My boyfriend has been having trouble for months ejaculating really quickly.
Sometimes I don't mind, because it seems like he really needs the release, and I'm happy to be able to do that for him, but sometimes I feel really left out. We can have sex every two days or so, so his sex drive is healthy, but even at that rate I'm lucky to come once a month during intercourse. He says he feels bad about not lasting long enough for me to come, and he tries to get me off before we have sex, which is nice, but I'd really like to get laid and come, on a little more consistent basis. He says that he really can't last any longer. Sex can frequently last half a minute or less. So sometimes I think that maybe there is a physical problem, or psychological, (guilt issues, or something) and sometimes I think he's just slefish and doesn't care if I get off or not. He wasn't like this when we started dating, we went out for almost a year and it was fine. We broke up for a few months, and since we've been back together, it's just not working.
He reacts so badly to it being brought up, it's hard to discuss it with him.
Is there anything I can do? What is probably the problem?