Hey,

My girlfriend of about a year likes it rough. She likes getting spanked, having her hair pulled, she dirty talks (although in all honesty its relatively PG), and she always says what gets her off is doing what I want her to do.

However, she's never mentioned BDSM, or a D/s relationship, and she's a little naive so I'm not sure she's heard of it.

Should I try and steer things in that direction? I really feel like she would enjoy it - a lot of what she enjoys is already somewhat in that category, am I right? I'm just really worried about messing up the relationship because of it, I am really happy with her.

I'm just wicked cautious about what to do next, so any advice is greatly appreciated. I'm not sure if what she's doing is 'normal' and will never get be more then what it is now, or if she has issues that are manifesting during sex..? Like I said any advice is appreciated.

Thanks,
Beyta