i am a 34 years old female with three kids and i think i am sub. i want my best friend to be my mistress but can i ask her. first she have a master and they are learn about this lifesyte . do i need to ask her master if she can become my mistress? i love her and trust her complete . i been read so many stories on this site and we doing a play together that has a lot of bdsm in it . we just talk when we are doing play on the phone and when we get together we will act out to point . need adavie