Rape in real life of either man or woman is a traumatic experience for the victim, in some cases this violation of privacy remains with the victim all of their life. I know of one person that I have spoken to that is the latter, so much so that when speaking to the male sex she is talking and standing as if in retreat if you understand what I mean.

I have read a few Male Dom books of late, and that in itself is a surprise, because I try not to read other peoples works in case it influences me in my books. I have also been reading a lot of reader’s letters in Magazines and posts in forums where i get a lot of my story ideas.

The thing that surprises me is the fact that so many women write about a fantasy of being raped. The female writers of the books are very explicit of the facts that they wish to tell you. There are women in the forums that have [on the request, their husbands and boyfriends have set up real life scenarios] which I might add I think dangerous. Just to point out a big fault here is a link to pure stupidity.

http://www.latimes.com/news/nation-a...454,full.story


Here in the Library was a discussion on the very same subject, to all that might want to give their fantasies realistic value read both.


http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...m-rape-scandal

There are also the ones that just fantasise about being abducted and either raped or gangbanged. I know that there are very safe scenes in the BDSM relationships of rape and abuse. All of this brings me to my question.

What is the fascination, and why do women fantasise about being used in this way?

Regards IAN 2411{lillirose}