my husband and i r new to this and he has alot of questions that i cant answer. he is deployed so im looking for sites or articals i can copy and paste into emails and send to him. im tryin to bring the dom out of him but hes the type of guy that needs to read info about what its about and what the general idea of something is. any sugestions? books maybe? and id like info on bein sub. its mostly just in the bedroom not our every day lives. but it does spill over from time to time. thanks.