Hello,
Let me extend a warm welcome to you, little one.
You found a great place to start if you are feeling like a n00b.. this forum is a great starting place for information (and knowledge is really key for feeling a little bit more secure)
The scariest part is always that first step, and don't worry about your post being too long, it shows you gave this some thought and it isn't some random whim ... and I also enjoy a little bit of fight in my slaves.

MSG me sometime