for discussion purposes only (i am NOT having this issue)
What do you do when a Dominant has been dealt with a huge blow in their life (such as major illness or death to a loved one) and they are not able to do the things that they once did.
The slave then has stepped up and taken over everything, just so the Dominant can cope with what ever it is.
Then when the Dominant is back to their own self, the slave has a hard time relinquishing the power again.
Only because the slave has always been in relationships where the other person SAID they were Dominant only to turn into a kinky person, (nothing wrong with that at all, if you are into that sort of thing)
The Dominant does try to take power back but the slave just can;t seem to get out of power mode as they are afraid it will just go back to the way it was before