I understand your situation flying66. Adominant, then a Master in Gor so i have had both subs and slaves. I allways insist that the sub/slave be VERY sure of what she wants, that's why I am 'Leery" about taking asib orslave right now, I think we Both should get to know each other a Lot better before we 'scene'. One thing I think you should NOT have told anyone else about her, even If you THink it was inconfidence and someone You felt like you could trust. Other than that, it saounds like to me, you are quite Genuine and dik nothing wrong, but personally, i feel EVERYTHING said and done betwen me and a sub/slave is Higly confidential and ytou should tell NO one what went on between you and here. I wish you good luck in the future, but remeber, it is CONFIDENTIAL