Hello

Ummm....so..... I guess I'm new to this and am curious about learning a bit more about real fetish play.

I have done a little bit, but not much. Also, never in reals, only on chats and I emphasize only a little.

I think I am mostly ignorant of fetish lifestyle, but I have read some and I am interested in finding out if it's the thing for me.

I think I should be honest on one thing though, I've heard that people within the community dislike it when people come into the community having seen a bunch of porn. I guess I need to be forthcoming and open that most of my experience does come from porn. Please don't be too hard on me for that, please consider that I have heard that people here disapprove of porn and that I am taking the risk of being shunned by the community by being this honest.

As far as my thoughts on porn goes however, I think it's important to remember it is a fantastic representation and not to be considered reality. I mean it's no more real than say Pirates of the Carribean or Transformers or Spiderman. Porn exists to entertain in much the same way, although porn inspires a sexual sense of arousal instead of a sense of adventure.

Like I said I felt like I should be honest and forthcoming about that in case it did bother anyone. You know what they say "honesty is the best policy"

I think I should also say I'm not 100% certain that this is for me and that my main reason for being here is learning whether this is right for me or not.

I am interested in B/D D/s and some light S/M (emphasis on "light" I don't think I can call myself a sadist)

I would like to learn about bondage and I have a specific interest for Japanese Shibari and Kinbaku.

Most of my fantasies involving actual partners in person are of a nature of a 24/7 Total Power Exchange (with certain limitations of course, I mean a slavegirl must be treated with respect to her needs and I have thought of some considerations on how to facilitate these within the TPE system) I think of this as more of a consensual fetish roleplay than any sort of actuality thing. I agree with this sites stipulations that Doms and subs alike ought to be treated as equals.

I have fantasized polygamously. I am straight though any slavegirls I took would likely need to be bi-sexual. I also find asian females to be appealing...I don't really consider this favoritism a fetish, but I suppose in this context it would be. I don't think of myself as a guy with "yellow fever" and I have no disillusions that asian females are somehow biologically submissive. Submissiveness cannot be programed biologically by ethnicity, some people choose to be dominant or submissive, it has nothing to do with race or ethnicity.

If anyone could help point me in the right direction to find out if this is right for me I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks!

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