The ones who restrict their interest to below 30-35 ...Doms as well as subs... are missing the experiences and opportunities that having a more experienced partner can provide. There are many beautiful, sexy, sensual subs over 40 in this Forum (of which you are one, soft) and Doms like me who are substantially over. If a sub wishes to miss the enjoyment that having decades of fantasies and experience can provide, then it is their loss. The same is true in reverse. I'm one of the more aged members here...age has little meaning in this. The mind is the body's largest sex organ. If young eye candy is the only objective...their loss.