Ask and it shall be given ye, seek and ye shall find.

I suspect I'm on the same train of thought as Delish: is this really an issue or even a common misconception? Of course some sites are geared more toward the online exchange of information whereas some are set up to facilitate the meet and greet - but if you can find one, how hard is it to find the others? Any number of searches and search engines will turn up links and topics and groups galore. Is that really that big of a shock?