... at least at first.

Hi there! After several years of flirting with the idea of a BDSM relationship, long before I had any inkling of what that would entail, and I've finally gathered the confidence to put myself out in the community. The catalyst was a dream I recently had. I woke up not remembering much but with the overwhelming feeling of "He was my perfect master." I'm certainly not looking for my soul mate or my dream master right now, but I would like someone to talk to about the lifestyle, how one breaks into the scene, keeping safe when one is new to the scene, etc. This person doesn't even have to be a dom; I'm just looking for someone to talk to.

Obviously, it would help if that person was interested in a mentor/teacher/guardian sort of position for themselves. I don't really have a list of questions ready, so someone who is willing to start off and talk about the things THEY feel are important would be perfect.