My husband and I started to explore the BDSM scene a little over a month ago now.I brought it up to him, thought it might help our sex life and our marriage,not like there was really anything wrong but might of brought as closer together.We are doing a little bdsm but it's always the same thing all the time.Same positions, activities,same everything. I want to grow as a submissive and him as a dominant but not sure how to get him to toughen him up and open up.We do have a child under the ago of five and my mother in law lives with us but we have privacy in our bedroom.I have talked to him about it a few times but it's still the same.Not sure if there is really anything I can do but maybe give him some more time to get used to it I guess..